Feelin Depressed

[T-O]

I feel Depressed again. Sometimes late at night I really get the feel'n that life has no sence and I don't really have a special talent at all. Man this sucks. I've got a test tomorrow havn't learnt anything. Not like I will. So. Basicly I'm very screwed. I wish I could scan those 400 page's I need to learn and actually Ace that test tomorrow. oh well, At least I can fall back on PHP scripting. :( *sigh*

[b.rich]

cheer up man. good days always follow the bad ones.

[~ЯאַR~}{('~]

Dude, i have no job, i have no career, i have no papers to work legally on this country, and im still here, wishing i could go to HOLLAND, and you are complaining. Come on, my life sucks more; if you ever need to help someone with lots of talent with your "lack of talent" it would be great, im making my webpage but it seems that nothing in it is working =D

***THANKS FOR THE EDITTING WHOEVER DID IT*** ¬¬

[T-O]

cheer up man. good days always follow the bad ones.

true.. I guess

[telekinesis]

You are still young dude. So many years ahread of you to find that skill. Don't worry about it so much and just remember to have fun while you have your youth.

[B3NKobe]

Life only gets better, thats what i rekon...

[T-O]

Life only gets better, thats what i rekon...


true... I guess

[senocular]

its not entirely true ;) but the depressed youth thing can be a stage. Try to wear more pink. Do that and I bet things will lighten up for you :)

[dreeft]

I know how you feel, I used to get depressed heaps through school.

It'll get better :D

[B3NKobe]

I know how you feel, I used to get depressed heaps through school.

It'll get better :D
Yeah& I can agree, there were many nights id sit there laying in bed just thinking about things that would make me depressed, it still happens, but once i wake up in the morning everythings fine again, until that night when i go back to bed lol.... I think things will be better when you get to the age of about 19-20

[radioxromance]

yeah they get... sorta better...
just try thinking about how things will be someday. I KNOW you'll go places, T-O. I mean, you ARE a regular here on the forums. What more does one need to succeed in life?

I'm hoping not much.

[lunatic]

You are still young dude. So many years ahread of you to find that skill. Don't worry about it so much and just remember to have fun while you have your youth.

Okay PLEEEEEEAAAASE no wise cracks (though I know I'm asking for it) but I swear I read that in a hurry and thought it said "just remember ot have fun while you have your MOUTH."

Okay, it's been a really long Monday . . . :hangover:

[[uber]]

yeah t-o i'm in the same rut... but just remember that things are gonna suck... then they will suck more... then, when it can't suck anymore.. you win the lottery!!!!

[Skinny_T]

when I'm depressed I seem to work myself into a mood where I dont care what ppl think or what my actions are then do something really outragous that I wouldn't normally do and by then im so impressed with myself that I kinda get over what I was depressed about.

[Vexir]

its not entirely true ;) but the depressed youth thing can be a stage. Try to wear more pink. Do that and I bet things will lighten up for you :)

Ok. What the @$#$&&# is wrong with you??????? Oh wait. The same thing thats wrong with me. :trout:

T-0, I suffer from exactly the same thing as you except worse because:

a) I'm ****ing ugly so I'll never get any girl to like me. :hurt:
b) I have no coding skills or .. any skills.. to fall back on :( I don't even know how to code LAYOUTS.

Now T-0. Now. Tell me your life is worse.

[minimalistik]

I feel Depressed again. Sometimes late at night I really get the feel'n that life has no sence and I don't really have a special talent at all. Man this sucks.


Your not the only one there, sometimes I just remember on things on did in the day or things I have not enjoyed on my bed, staying into space for like 2 hours. But theres always good things that follow bad things even if you dont think so. Sorry your feeling depressed but try to get away from people and not the computer if you can take it.

[T-O]

I KNOW you'll go places, T-O. I mean, you ARE a regular here on the forums. What more does one need to succeed in life?

Ok. What the @$#$&&# is wrong with you??????? Oh wait. The same thing thats wrong with me. :trout:

T-0, I suffer from exactly the same thing as you except worse because:

a) I'm ****ing ugly so I'll never get any girl to like me. :hurt:
b) I have no coding skills or .. any skills.. to fall back on :( I don't even know how to code LAYOUTS.

Now T-0. Now. Tell me your life is worse.

Whahahahahaha


reading this forum really made me laught. :lol: thanks guyz.. :P Doesn't change much about my situation at this time. but sure made me laught. :P

At least I can fall back on the kirupaforum people. :P

[RabBell]

sorry to hear your feeling down T-O, perhaps it a sign something has to change

some people can feel bad because nothing is happening in their lives and sometimes they're right. I felt depressed last year, I had no job, my grandfather (who I adored) died the year before and my grandmother, who never got over his death, was dying of cancer. Man it was a crappy year. Then just two weeks after my grandmother dies, my fiancee's grandfather died of cancer too. A really remarkable guy who I'm just thankful to have met.

Anyway even at my lowest (and I was feeling low) I managed to get a job. It made me realise that I had the ability to make this year better than the last. No-one else is gonna do it, no miracle cure for sale, you gotta do it for yourself. So I'm now 2 months into my new job, I start a screenwriting course later this week, I've been going to the gym more and I feel better, I'm trying to start my own business and I'm gonna try and run the 2005 Edinburgh Marathon. Some little changes, some big and I am looking forward to this year.

My point is that if you're unhappy and nothings happening in life then you're the one that's gotta change it. New job, new friends, new house, new city, whatever it takes to make you happy...do it. Life can only get better, right :h:

[T-O]

RabBell that's true. I need to change somethings in my life. Only at this moment I want to change it but I can't because I'm conflicted with allot of stuff. I'm just going to study for the next test...


as for the test, I didn't even go to school today. Just didn't feel right. I'm going to study for the next test.

[Pomme_]

If you were a chick, I'd tell you to go eat some chocolate or some nutella (hazelnut chocolate spread - yummy). But I guess it works for guys too, that chocolate stuff, it's been proven to be an anti-depressor.

[hoodz]

always look on the bright side of life *whistles*

[Ψ]

If you were a chick, I'd tell you to go eat some chocolate or some nutella (hazelnut chocolate spread - yummy). But I guess it works for guys too, that chocolate stuff, it's been proven to be an anti-depressor.


yea bro it tastes amazing....i just :love: it



Ok. What the @$#$&&# is wrong with you??????? Oh wait. The same thing thats wrong with me.

T-0, I suffer from exactly the same thing as you except worse because:

a) I'm ****ing ugly so I'll never get any girl to like me.
b) I have no coding skills or .. any skills.. to fall back on I don't even know how to code LAYOUTS.

Now T-0. Now. Tell me your life is worse.


hey man who are you to say if you are ugly or not :lol: :beam: :P



T-O man i feel depressed too. and to overcome depression is the hardest thing...i've thuoght about wuts the purpse of life and all that stuff u are talking about while i was sleeping..i have even stayed up all night thinking about it. then in the morning i would just say. i am 16 i still have my whole life ahead of me to discover what is the purpose of life..and the thing about special talkents, everyone has a special talent..like i realized that i can write good poetry even thouhg i really suck at english..but i ended up wining my class poetry contest..well enough about me. but my point is that everyone has a secret talent that sooner or later people are going to find out about. ask some people around you that if they see any good special talent, because sometimes a special talent u cannot see it for yourself. some otherpeople know about it but you dont..welll dont feel depressed man http://www.senocular.com/smilies/lips.gif

[senocular]

always look on the bright side of life *whistles*

:!: :lol: I was JUST whistling that not 5 seconds before hopping on the computer

:whistle: Do-do do-do do-do do-do :whistle:

(they played it on the radio because they were interviewing Terry Jones)

[G]

know how you feel I have an exam next week and I also feel like life has no meaning when I am in bed just thinking aobut stuff. Over coming hurdles in life makes you stronger :)

Battle on my T-O I am sure you will win the war :)

[Pomme_]

:!: :lol: I was JUST whistling that not 5 seconds before hopping on the computer

:whistle: Do-do do-do do-do do-do :whistle:

(they played it on the radio because they were interviewing Terry Jones)
The Life of Brian really is da bomb-movie...
:whistle: do-do do-do do-do do-do :whistle:

[RabBell]

The Life of Brian really is da bomb-movie...
:whistle: do-do do-do do-do do-do :whistle:
Cruxifiction?
No, freedom for me. :beam:


I need to change somethings in my life. Only at this moment I want to change it but I can't because I'm conflicted with allot of stuff. I'm just going to study for the next test...
What are the tests you've got T-O?
What are the conflictions you've got, maybe we can help :thumb:

[hoodz]

Cruxifiction?
No, freedom for me. :beam:


What are the tests you've got T-O?
What are the conflictions you've got, maybe we can help :thumb:
yea we can help!
:whistle: do-do do-do do-do do-do

[B3NKobe]

Well iv been depressed now since newyears, it only hits me at night just before bed and i dont know why, although during the day if im bored its on my mind. heres the story...

november 2003 i made a new friend (a chick) her name was Phoebe, we got along just perfect! although she was 2 years younger than me, but that didnt matter, we talked and got along at school and rang each other at night for ridiculous hours wasting all my prepaid credit on my mobile ever 2nd day! Things were great with her! Anyway towards the end of 2004 i finished school in october (yr 12 shes yr 10) and so i didnt see her but we still spoke a fair bit on the fone. Anyway i hadnt seen her since school so i made her a promise that id give her a hug before 2005 starts she didnt beleive me that i would. So newyears eve i went to inverloch and partied on, met up with her and we kissed each other for the first time on the jetty at about 10pm, although as the night moved on things also moved on....http://www.kirupa.com/forum/images/smilies/28.gif and i ended up staying the night with her at her place. The next morning when i left at about 10am-ish i went home and went straight to sleep because i hadnt slept all night and i had a BAD BAD hang over!

Anyway i msged her that night and got no response, and then so on, 2 days after she emails me telling me that she never wants to speak to me again or see me and that she wished i never went to invy on newyears to see her because i ruined things that she had going with another (she was single when she was with me but had a guy in mind, vice versa). It ripped my heart to shreds and i still havnt been able to forget her or that night, i really am in love with her and im serious! shes on my mind 24/7 but she hates me! Its really ****ed! i spoke to her best friend and she had a go at her because of what she did to me, i just wish she comes back to me, i just wanna be good friends again!!

Well thats my depresent so far for 2005! http://www.kirupa.com/forum/images/smilies/disappointed.gifhttp://www.kirupa.com/forum/images/smilies/disappointed.gifhttp://www.kirupa.com/forum/images/smilies/disappointed.gifhttp://www.kirupa.com/forum/images/smilies/disappointed.gif

[RabBell]

Anyway i msged her that night and got no response, and then so on, 2 days after she emails me telling me that she never wants to speak to me again or see me and that she wished i never went to invy on newyears to see her because i ruined things that she had going with another (she was single when she was with me but had a guy in mind, vice versa). It ripped my heart to shreds and i still havnt been able to forget her or that night, i really am in love with her and im serious! shes on my mind 24/7 but she hates me! Its really ****ed! i spoke to her best friend and she had a go at her because of what she did to me, i just wish she comes back to me, i just wanna be good friends again!!
if you haven't told her this, then you should. Never mind talking to her best friend, grow a set and confront her. You've got nothing to lose have you, she already isn't talking to you. Let her know how you feel and she might suprise you...if not, nothing lost. At least you gave it a go.

[B3NKobe]

if you haven't told her this, then you should. Never mind talking to her best friend, grow a set and confront her. You've got nothing to lose have you, she already isn't talking to you. Let her know how you feel and she might suprise you...if not, nothing lost. At least you gave it a go. Thanks rabbell, just might do that, i had wondered if i should do that, i just wasnt sure, but i think i will do it sometime in the next few days, :D thanks
and with nothing more to lose then i dont see why i shouldnt!!

[RabBell]

Thanks rabbell, just might do that, i had wondered if i should do that, i just wasnt sure, but i think i will do it sometime in the next few days, :D thanks
and with nothing more to lose then i dont see why i shouldnt!!
good luck :thumb:

[T-O]

What are the tests you've got T-O?
What are the conflictions you've got, maybe we can help :thumb:

pretty much basic phisics... But I'm really crapping my pants for this subject called Electronic networks.
Reallly hard.

[mjULTRA]

"The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up."

Mark Twain (http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/m/mark_twain.html)

[Pomme_]

"Always look on the bright side of life." (The guy crucified next to Brian).

How to kill a joke 101. Welcome to class!!

[SlowRoasted]

Try a new hobby, maybe weight lifting. Im sure you will feel better about yourself when you start getting some monster pecks hehe.

could try going to church, if your open to that sort of thing.

Try getting involved at school too. There are lots of clubs and activities a pretty much every school, just gotta go out and participate. They also look good on a resume;)

[prstudio]

RabBell that's true. I need to change somethings in my life. Only at this moment I want to change it but I can't because I'm conflicted with allot of stuff. I'm just going to study for the next test...


as for the test, I didn't even go to school today. Just didn't feel right. I'm going to study for the next test.
For all the crap I've done and can say "hey look at this" - I was horrible at the whole college thing...not going to the test is not the answer...not going to class is not the answer...always try - a 20% is better than a 0% -

I don't mean to sound too preachy or dramatic, but don't ever give up on school - psst here's a secret - I failed out of college twice - but that degree is mine... I'm the head graphic designer for the Florida Department of Law Enforcement...(I start Friday...please don't look at their page now its horrible and 10 years old) and I was a Senior Net Admin for the Florida Highway Patrol - so don't let the "setbacks" in life bog you down to where you can't function.

Grab your textbooks - go out to the campus lawn and start reading. Then I suggest going to the gym and doing something physical...anything.

School is your #1 priority.

Get your mind and body in shape and you will feel better :)

[dgrhm]

I feel Depressed again. Sometimes late at night I really get the feel'n that life has no sence and I don't really have a special talent at all. Man this sucks. I've got a test tomorrow havn't learnt anything. Not like I will. So. Basicly I'm very screwed. I wish I could scan those 400 page's I need to learn and actually Ace that test tomorrow. oh well, At least I can fall back on PHP scripting. :( *sigh*
Everybody's been there dude. Life can seem very meaningless and hopeless at times. I find if I get involved with something outside myself, I tend to forget what I was so upset about.

As for meaning, don't think too hard on it. Life's about living, breathing, eating, and surviving. Do something everyday you'll enjoy. Take a risk. Step outside of your world and look at something new.

Visit an old friend or relative.

Sounds like a bad astrology horoscope, sorry. Bottom line get active in something where you're not focused on yourself. I find creative work to be very therapeutic.

Hang in there.

[RabBell]

pretty much basic phisics... But I'm really crapping my pants for this subject called Electronic networks.
Reallly hard.
sounds difficult but I'd stick at it, nothing beats education

mind you I left school at 16 with no qualifications at all. Went back to further education at 19 and by 23 had a degree in software engineering so it is always something that can be done later if you don't wanna do it just now.

just be prepared to work s**t jobs like I did between 16 and 19...jobs which included cleaning a supermarket and working in a glass factory :(

good thing that gets rid of depression as well.....women :love:

[[uber]]

sounds difficult but I'd stick at it, nothing beats education

mind you I left school at 16 with no qualifications at all. Went back to further education at 19 and by 23 had a degree in software engineering so it is always something that can be done later if you don't wanna do it just now.

just be prepared to work s**t jobs like I did between 16 and 19...jobs which included cleaning a supermarket and working in a glass factory :(

good thing that gets rid of depression as well.....women :love:


thats exactly what i'm doing... i'm in a big city with no family and no support from anyone... it sucks but o well.. hopefully i'll be graduated in may... i'll be 19 on the 16th....