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Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 03:48 PM
Hey, I've been down about this for quite a bit and want to seek some help from all of you. Here's my problem.

I have this friend who is really close to me. He's just an online friend, but I feel like I've known him for ever. I trust him with everything, he has admin properties on my forum and even my site. I'd do anything for him. But now he's suddenly mad at me. I'm not 100% sure why, but I may have a clue. I think I was being quite inconsiderate at times and may have taken things over the line a bit. I'm a really open guy and share everything with everyone. So, but, I thought we always kept it as plain fun and jokes. But I think he took some of it the wrong way. I never meant to offend him in any way and I'm really quite confused on what I should do. I tried many many many times to contact through various methods appoligizing and such through e-mail, msn, aim. But seems like everything I do, he blocks and never responds or even reads I doubt. It's not like I did one thing really bad and he just stopped talking to me. It's just like as if I did something really bad which I don't think I did.

Some of you may already know who I'm talking about or heard about it from me. I think he should remain annoymous for now, but I really need help on this. It's been on my mind for weeks now and I'mr eally upset about it.

:*(
BadMagick
August 19th, 2003, 03:57 PM
I dunno what more you can do, bud. If you reach your hand out, and they don't take it back, I think that's their problem.

You say you've tried multiple times to right the wrongs, what else is left? I've had some problems like you have - people I've known from years of school who all a sudden turned their back for whatever reason ... Sure I was upset about it all, but then I woke up.

To hell with them if they're going to be that stubbron about it all. Takes 2 to tango, my friend. If you've humbled yourself, shown you're willing to make a change in things, and they still turn away - I say give it up.

Who needs 'em? You've got us :)
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 04:00 PM
But I know him too long, I don't think he's stubborn to the stage like this. At least, I hope not. Although I've given lots of thoughts in just 'o screw it', it's hard to forget because it's like, he's probably the one and single online guy that I've known forever and knows more about me than myself.

:*(
ahmed
August 19th, 2003, 04:00 PM
Originally posted by BadMagick
To hell with them.. yup.. to hell with them =)
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 04:01 PM
O ahmed, you should know best in this situation. :sure:

I don't want to be 'To hell with them...' on this.
Yeldarb
August 19th, 2003, 04:02 PM
yeah, badmagick said it pretty well
if hes REALLY REALLY mad at you though, you might want to make him not admin of your site anymore, could be bad news if he decides to screw with it...
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 04:03 PM
I still have full trust in him that he won't wipe my server and such since he knows too much about it already (pw included and everything).

The one thing I'm still confused about is still my mistake. What did I exactly did or didn't do that pissed him off. I don't see how I can find out if he has blocked all chances of contact.
Soul
August 19th, 2003, 04:18 PM
Oh the irony!!
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 04:19 PM
Soul knows what I'm talking about. :P

:love:
telekinesis
August 19th, 2003, 04:57 PM
redrum
Yeldarb
August 19th, 2003, 05:06 PM
http://www.aadega.com.br/imagens/diversos/Johnnie%20Walker%20Red%20Label%20.jpg
^^red rum :)
telekinesis
August 19th, 2003, 05:36 PM
smart arse :P
mdipi
August 19th, 2003, 06:41 PM
dont worry, he knows who you are talking about...he will come around
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 06:50 PM
Hopefully.

;(
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 07:44 PM
But one thing I still don't understand is why so sudden. Did he just wake up one day and decided that Max is a jerk?

:*(
fez
August 19th, 2003, 07:47 PM
hey max. my names fez.
Soul
August 19th, 2003, 07:54 PM
!? :m:
fez
August 19th, 2003, 08:18 PM
sorry sorry....im your friend too okay?
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 08:32 PM
Originally posted by fez
hey max. my names fez.
Irrevelant, but.

Hey fez. My name is Max.

:azn:
ahmed
August 19th, 2003, 09:09 PM
hm.. sounds like you're wanting your friend back soo much.. is it a girl or a guy, may i ask? =)
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 11:18 PM
O it's a guy alright, this may make me sound gay, but I'm too good of friend with him to let him go. Ahmed, you might know this person.
Soul
August 19th, 2003, 11:18 PM
Arghh the irony is killing me!!
nobody
August 19th, 2003, 11:21 PM
Me too soul, me too
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 11:25 PM
Lol, and yet both of you know what I'm talking about.

O the irony.:sure:
Maxtr0sity
August 19th, 2003, 11:26 PM
Ahmed, what would you do? Or atleast, what do you think about it.
Voetsjoeba
August 20th, 2003, 03:08 AM
Originally posted by Soul
Arghh the irony is killing me!!

Me too, argh !
Maxtr0sity
August 20th, 2003, 09:17 AM
I still wish me and him can solve the problem. But should I just quit and let it bed although I really don't want to?
Soul
August 20th, 2003, 09:19 AM
Give it time
Maxtr0sity
August 20th, 2003, 09:21 AM
I don't believe in the 'Time heals everything' ordeal, but I have to admit, this is getting a bit old in my head too, I think I'm going to leave it as 'O screw it'.

Thanks all.
Esp. Soul, Josh, Mike, and Voetsjoeba.
rere420
August 20th, 2003, 09:43 AM
Asa female, my opinion maybe a littel different but, I would just give it a last shot and then you did everything you can. I would send him an email, not an aim or anything so he cant block you, and just tell him...I consider you one of my closest friends, I think i may have made some mistakes(what ever those maybe) if I have offended or hurt you it was totally unintentional (unless it wasnt, which i dont get the sense that it was) and I am trying to apologize. I would tell him you understand you can make him take your apology but you are putting it out there b/c you are truly sorry and you really dont want to lose his friendship after that there is not much you can do....but I would consider being careful with your site and everything sometimes people dont turn out to be who we really thought they were...even when we trust them. hope that helps, it is what I would do
Maxtr0sity
August 20th, 2003, 09:45 AM
^90% that done but with no response though.

Thanks.
Soul
August 20th, 2003, 09:50 AM
I didn't say give up, I said give it time
Maxtr0sity
August 20th, 2003, 09:51 AM
Well, I guess time can be forever though. Who knows, but I'm expecting most people to usually forget or forgive within a month?
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 01:07 PM
Originally posted by rere420
Asa female, my opinion maybe a littel different but, I would just give it a last shot and then you did everything you can. I would send him an email, not an aim or anything so he cant block you, and just tell him...I consider you one of my closest friends, I think i may have made some mistakes(what ever those maybe) if I have offended or hurt you it was totally unintentional (unless it wasnt, which i dont get the sense that it was) and I am trying to apologize. I would tell him you understand you can make him take your apology but you are putting it out there b/c you are truly sorry and you really dont want to lose his friendship after that there is not much you can do....but I would consider being careful with your site and everything sometimes people dont turn out to be who we really thought they were...even when we trust them. hope that helps, it is what I would do

I definitley agree, that's all u can do.:(
Maxtr0sity
August 25th, 2003, 01:10 PM
I think I've given it enough time already. Don't know what I should do and just about to give up.
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 01:14 PM
Originally posted by Maxtr0sity
I think I've given it enough time already. Don't know what I should do and just about to give up.

I think u should give up. If ur freind will not accept ur appoligies or anything, maybe he wasn't a great friend in the 1st place. But i'd be happy to be ur friend:)
asphaltcowboy
August 25th, 2003, 01:22 PM
so who are we talking about?
Maxtr0sity
August 25th, 2003, 01:33 PM
Originally posted by asphaltcowboy
so who are we talking about? I don't think I should disclose this person just yet.

Hint: He's on this forum, and quite important (mod).
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 01:59 PM
Originally posted by Maxtr0sity
I don't think I should disclose this person just yet.

Hint: He's on this forum, and quite important (mod).

Is it that reverned dude?
mdipi
August 25th, 2003, 02:00 PM
nope :D
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:03 PM
Originally posted by mdipi.com
nope :D

How do u know
reverendflash
August 25th, 2003, 02:07 PM
because I don't IM...

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:16 PM
Originally posted by mdipi.com
nope :D

How do u know
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:17 PM
Originally posted by reverendflash
because I don't IM...

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

Oh yeah!
mdipi
August 25th, 2003, 02:23 PM
and he told me.
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:27 PM
Originally posted by mdipi.com
and he told me.

why did he tell u. I really wanna know who it is:(
reverendflash
August 25th, 2003, 02:28 PM
it can only be maybe 2 or 3 people, so figure it out...

curiosity killed the cat, you know...

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif
Maxtr0sity
August 25th, 2003, 02:38 PM
Mike knows, I'm not too sure if Rev knows. But certainly not Rev.
NaliWarCow
August 25th, 2003, 02:38 PM
it's obviously montoya. Montoya seems to hate us all. he just ignores all the threads here.
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:38 PM
Originally posted by reverendflash
it can only be maybe 2 or 3 people, so figure it out...

curiosity killed the cat, you know...
Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

But i thought there were more moderators than that
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:40 PM
Originally posted by NaliWarCow
it's obviously montoya. Montoya seems to hate us all. he just ignores all the threads here.

It's montoya?
mdipi
August 25th, 2003, 02:40 PM
there are, but just think of it, male mods. why do you need to know? he will tell when he is ready. montoya is cool :thumb: not him though.
Maxtr0sity
August 25th, 2003, 02:40 PM
http://www.kirupa.com/me/mods.htm
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:44 PM
I don't know who it is, and ur right, when he's ready, he'll say
Maxtr0sity
August 25th, 2003, 02:46 PM
Doubt it. He's shy like that.:P
valay5
August 25th, 2003, 02:47 PM
Originally posted by Maxtr0sity
Doubt it. He's shy like that.:P

???
Maxtr0sity
August 25th, 2003, 02:50 PM
I doubt he'll be like. 'It's me.' He doesn't do that.
Soul
August 25th, 2003, 03:48 PM
Stop playing this up Max, it's not a game
Maxtr0sity
August 25th, 2003, 06:27 PM
Trust me, I am not treating this as a game. I am sick and tired of this already. And the final matter is that I give up now. Screw him, forget him, there will always be others. The discussion on this is closed.
valay5
August 26th, 2003, 11:18 AM
Originally posted by Maxtr0sity
Trust me, I am not treating this as a game. I am sick and tired of this already. And the final matter is that I give up now. Screw him, forget him, there will always be others. The discussion on this is closed.

Good 4 u!
pinx
August 26th, 2003, 11:20 AM
RIP little thread
Voetsjoeba
August 26th, 2003, 11:27 AM
Aww crap, I was kinda hoping you guys could make it up to each other :( ...
Maxtr0sity
August 26th, 2003, 12:25 PM
And now I'm hoping this thread can die sometime no offense to anyome. Voetsjoeba, me too sometime or another.
kirupa
August 26th, 2003, 12:36 PM
Yep - it's true, max and I haven't gotten along. The secret is out, and everybody can go home back to....Random :)
pinx
August 26th, 2003, 12:38 PM
this is so sad. :(
kirupa
August 26th, 2003, 12:43 PM
I know - a fellow Asian Brother disowning his own kind :(
NaliWarCow
August 26th, 2003, 12:52 PM
Indian people aren't asian. They're from sub-asia. They were their own little island, then they decide, hey those people look cool up there, maybe we should move our island up there. So they did. They're not really asian.
kirupa
August 26th, 2003, 01:02 PM
I know :( It was first Adam, Eve, Lillith, Morrigan, Sasquath, Demitrius, Bulletta, Bishamon, and other characters from Vampire Savior (DarkStalkers) then an unnamed :ninja: that somehow learned to walk upright and do math :cyclops:

The island should have never merged with the mainland.....I'm sure max hates me even more after I completely sidetracked this serious thread into a spamville.
valay5
August 26th, 2003, 01:16 PM
Originally posted by pinx
this is so sad. :(

I agree
Maxtr0sity
August 26th, 2003, 03:53 PM
Originally posted by kirupa
Yep - it's true, max and I haven't gotten along. The secret is out, and everybody can go home back to....Random :) :(

I'm pretty sure we're the true asians up in asia. India isn't part of asia, it's just...India, by it self. Just like how Russia is not part of Europe. They wish they where part of asia or europe, but nope. Sorry. ;)

As for this turning into Spamville. I will hate you eternally from now on.