Relationship questions

[Maxtr0sity]

I've got some problem with this one girl that I'm about to go out with on Sunday. I asked her out on Tuesday after my ex decided to break up, but it was mutual. But this girl isn't like all the girls I've gone out with. I've known her for about a year now and she's not too talkative to me as before. We both traded phone numbers and such, but should I call her first or should I wait until Sunday?

=)

[reverendflash]

by all means, wait...

If you call, you risk being mistaken as "desperate."

which is the death toll for relationships of any kind...

She could just feel a little uncomfortable, especially since you are now single... after your date, you should be on a much more "friendly" basis.

however, that is just my opinion...

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

[asphaltcowboy]

not that I'm an advocate of threads like this (ok... well.. just fluid_0ne's one.. ;)) but: wait. if you've already secured a date with her, there's no need to call her up or anything, and as rev says, you might come off looking desparate :)

[reverendflash]

relationship threads are cool IMO...

Whining threads will get a lot of harassment tho...

;)

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

[asphaltcowboy]

Originally posted by asphaltcowboy
(ok... well.. just fluid_0ne's one.. ;))

[Maxtr0sity]

Yea, I've thought of the "desperate" thing. I don't want to look "desperate" and by all, I'm not. I don't want to have these "grudges" hanging between us throughout the relationship. Someone is going to have to call the other first. Should I or wait for her?

=)

[reverendflash]

anticipation is a very good thing... especially since we are only talking of a few days... If you are going out on Sunday, and you need to call to make arrangements, then I would call on Friday to confirm, and make it a real short, but relaxed convo...

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[Sintax Sinister]

After your first date it should be safe to call her every now and then to show that you are still interested. If you already have a first date planned out then I agree with them. You have no need to call her, maybe the day you pick her up, but that is the extent of it.

[Maxtr0sity]

Well, we've never actually talked over the phone yet. We actually set up all our plans online for some reason.

:blush:

But the confirmation is a must and I don't know if I should do that by phone or IM? Again, the "desperate" thing comes up again. But it can also be a door opener.

=)

[Kitiara]

Don't call her till a couple of days after the date.

You won't seem too desperate by calling beforehand, and by leaving it a few days after you'll keep her guessing, then she'll be even more pleased to hear from you. :)

[asphaltcowboy]

kit: :love:

[reverendflash]

Like I said, Friday make a relaxed, short phone call to confirm. If she is suddenly busy, take it well, and try to get another date.

If she still doesn't seem receptive, let it go for now, keep in touch via IM, and maybe later she may be more receptive. After all, you just split with another girl...

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[Kitiara]

I kinda have a slight advantage here on how women think about this sort of thing. :)

Women want men to call like, right after the date, and when men don't, we start thinking about them more, wondering why they haven't called yet. We start to panic, then when you do call, we're so relieved that you actually do like us, we're more happy and relaxed than we would have been if you'd called right away...

[asphaltcowboy]

really? how comes? ;)

[Kitiara]

Shut it, buster. :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Kit: Always good to hear from a women's point of view. :thumb: Thanks

Reverendflash: Since the date is on Sunday, is there a reason for calling on Friday?

I hope she gets "receptive" pretty soon because it's kind of driving me nuts inside. :blush:

=)

[reverendflash]

don't you agree kit, that if confirmation is needed, a phone call is best?

I'm curious is all... I'm essentially married, so I hope to never need this advice... I hope...

in regards to why Friday, it is a couple days in advance, and it shows you are still interested, and makes sure she doesn't pick someone else she would rather go out with...

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[Maxtr0sity]

So if the date's on Sunday, I should call maybe on Tuesday night maybe or even Wendsday?

=)

[Kitiara]

I'm with Rev here. :)

If you're going to call to confirm, then Friday is best. Not too before, but close enough so that she'll have it on her mind for the next day. :)

Just a quick call to make sure. Nothing heavy, just a "Hi, how are you, is Sunday still alright for you? Thanks, see ya" will be fine. :)

It shows courtesy that you bothered, but not too over eager. :)

[asphaltcowboy]

Originally posted by Kitiara
Shut it, buster. :P I love it when you talk dirty :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Asphalt: Lol

Kit: *Writing down on paper*

So it's call on Friday to confirm. What about when to call back after?

=)

[reverendflash]

not the next day, but the day after...

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[Kitiara]

Date on Sunday... Call Tuesday or Wednesday. :)

I know it drives me crazy when I don't hear from a guy until a while later. :)

[DariusMonsef]

Since Kit is giving advice here and my question might assist you in what to talk about on your date:

Kit: What are some good get to know questions?

[reverendflash]

Originally posted by Kitiara
Date on Sunday... Call Tuesday or Wednesday. :)

I know it drives me crazy when I don't hear from a guy until a while later. :)

good to know we think alike on this subject... makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside...

:love:

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[Maxtr0sity]

Nice, since Friday is the 4th of July in the US, she might not be home, should I call on Saturday if she's not home that day?

O yea, conversation is needed. Although we're going to see T3 for some reason (she picked it, I swear to god), talk or no talk during the movie?

=)

[Kitiara]

Depends how well you know the girl. :)

Most women like to be listened to and (lets be honest here) talk about themselves a lot. :) So, ask her about what she does (if she works), what she's been up to recently, that kind of thing. If she seems particularly enthusiastic about something, steer the conversation onto that, even it bores the hell out of you for a while. Don't worry, eventually she'll be expecting you to talk to her about your stuff, but that comes later. :P

Generally it helps if you know a bit about her already and what she likes. :) And I guess if you don't know yet, this is an ideal time and way to find out. :)

Oh, and generally - no talk during a movie. Especially if she's picked it. She'll want to watch it. Unless she talks first, that is in which case feel free to answer. :)

[reverendflash]

If she is not home on Friday, leave a message, and hopefully she will call back. If she doesn't (some women will not call men), then call her back on Sat. to confirm the movie theater and time.

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[asphaltcowboy]

I bet rev is an animal in bed ;)

[DariusMonsef]

So once you get past Hwat do you do, where are you from...

... What are some other questions, that might let a girl know that you are really interested in "her". (Not her bra or how much she paid for it.)

and also that are questions that will let you figure out the most about who she is and what she is about.

[Maxtr0sity]

I know Alisha (the girl I'm going out with) pretty well. I have to admit though, I complain a lot, I'm not sure that's attractive, but she not sure if she'll talk much about her problems. I express my problems loud and clear. I basically know a lot about her already, but I think it can get irritating to be asked all those questions. I want to talk to her about her problems, but not sure if she's open as I am.

=)

[DariusMonsef]

Like what problems?

I'm not sure the best topic of conversation for a first date is about problems. Maybe something light hearted, find out some things about her you don't know.

[Maxtr0sity]

Lmao @ Ethan. Don't worry aobut bras, I don't think that will come up on the first date. Although...that would be fun. :thumb:

Rev: I think thats what I'm going to do, call and leave a message if she's not home, but what if one of her many siblings or parents answer?

Asphalt:

I bet rev is an animal in bed ;)
I don't want to know how you know that. ;)

[Maxtr0sity]

You guys don't want to hear my problems. I can write an entire essay about my problems, but I'm willing to share if you guys are willing to hear me complain.

=)

[Kitiara]

I guess just finding areas of common ground, things you both maybe have an interest in... I had a date once where we spent roughly 45 minutes discussing the merits of a 4-4-2 formation, complete with drinks glasses as digrams. I have some weird dates sometimes. :P But as an example, he found out that I was interested in football, so he asked my opinions on various topics within that subject.

And it's kind of how you behave towards her too... Look her in the eye not the chest, but not for too long else you'll look like a psycho. Be courteous and gentlemanly, like opening doors for her. It's subtle and maybe old fashioned, but unless she'sa a radical feminist she'll appreciate the thought. :)

For the record, not once has a man enquired about the cost of my bra. At least not on a first date. :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Kit: Whats a 4-4-2 formation? Don't worry about me staring at her chest area. I'll try my best to keep my eyes straight, unless she's wearing a low cut, then all hell breaks loose. ;)

=)

[asphaltcowboy]

Originally posted by Maxtr0sity
I don't want to know how you know that. ;) I didnt say I knew! I said I bet! :)

Kit: Forget bras.. one of my friends talk to his date about 'sh*t'.. not as in nonsense.. actually 'sh*t' :-\ lol :thumb:

[Soul]

Originally posted by asphaltcowboy
Kit: Forget bras.. one of my friends talk to his date about 'sh*t'.. not as in nonsense.. actually 'sh*t' :-\ lol :thumb:
I told you not to tell anyone that! :(

[Kitiara]

Max - 4-4-2 is a footballing formation, mind-bogglingly dull to anyone uninterested in football. :)

And if it's a low cut top - stare at a point about 2" above her head. Just don't drop that gaze. :P

Asphalt - OK, I've never had a date do <i>that</i> :P

[asphaltcowboy]

lol, rest assured it didnt last long :)

soul: lol! sorry I forgot ;)

[DariusMonsef]

matroxity, don't worry about a 4-4-2. It's not nearly as important as a 4-2-4, willing you ahve solid mid fielders.

Kit: Agreed about finding the common interests, I guess I've left finding good advice for matroxity and am now fishing for myself.

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, fine. I don't want to know how you would come even close to even bet knowing that. ;)

I hope it all goes well though.

NEW PROBLEM:
She's bring a friend along, I've know her friend for just as long as Alisha. I'm not intrested in her friend though. I'm not sure if her friend is bringing a guy, or anyone else. I actually don't really like the idea of having more people, I wanted to be kind of personal if you know what I mean.

This leads to the money issue. I'll be bringing about $100.00, I hope thats enough for the movie, and then probably walk around the mall somewhat and hopefully we can talk more, alone I wish. I know I'm going to buy the tickets and popcorn and such. But if her friend comes along, should I pay for her too or should I let her pay for herself. I don't want to look mean, so I'm a bit confused on this.

=)

[Kitiara]

Pas de problem. :) Although I'd argue your choice of formation, how you can justify only 2 in midfield... :P

Anyone else have any relationship questions they'd like to ask me? :)

[Maxtr0sity]

Kit: Are we still talking about 4-2-2?

[DariusMonsef]

Holy crap if a movie date cost me $100, i'd give up and be single for ever.

I think if she is bringing a friend she's not thinking of this as the same kind of date you are. Unless her friend is bringing a date.

Ok your right, in most cases a 4-2-4 is tough, but a 4-3-3 with mids that drop back and push forward is much better.

[asphaltcowboy]

blatantly 3-5-2 tbh.. (bearing in mind.. I know squat about football :)

my question is: are you and soul gonna come on msn? :P

btw, 4-2-2 is impossible.. you'd only have 9 players on the field :beam:

[Kitiara]

Thankfully from your (an pretty much everyone else's) point of view, no. :)

About the friend thing... That's a fairly tough call. Really if you're on a date with one girl, the friend ought to be paying for herself. She certainly shouldn't expect you to. I suppose... For something like the movie (which isn't too costly) you could offer to get all three tickets. Or food / drink for everyone. Just to show you're making an effort. I dunno. If she comes with a date too, then you're sorted obviously. :P

Of course, some of us girls prefer to be the ones who pay for stuff. :beam:

[Maxtr0sity]

Ethan, I'm just bringing $100 just incase. Each movie ticket is around $10, but then popcorn and drinks will run up to another $10 per person. I'm not going to get popcorn or drink because I rather save my money. O god, you've brought up a new point. What if she thinks it's still a friend on friend basis?

:(

[Maxtr0sity]

Now I'm definitely paying, that was preset for me on all dates. I think I'm going to ask her when she gets online if her friend has a date?

I'm getting worried. :blush:

=)

[asphaltcowboy]

Originally posted by Kitiara
Of course, some of us girls prefer to be the ones who pay for stuff. :beam: which is a refreshing change tbh.. esp because I'm completely skint :)

[Kitiara]

Yeah, but you two wouldn't let me buy you drinks, would you? :P

OK, Max... Don't worry. If you asked her out on a date and she accepted, then you can be pretty certain she knows it's a 'date'. :)

[Maxtr0sity]

I think I have about $150 saved up, I need another job, my internship pays $0 currently.

=)

[Clown Staples]

i know less than asphalt.
football is soccer, right? and does 4-2-2 include the goalie?

[Maxtr0sity]

*Strolling off topic*

=)

[Kitiara]

I can hardly believe I'm explaining football to men. :) That's almost humourous. :P

Quickly then, yes football is your 'soccer'. :) 4-4-2 refers to the playing formation of a team, defence-midfield-attack and how many players in each area. The keeper is never included, as he's always in the same position. :) 4-4-2 is the most common formation, but it varies from team to team. :)

Now, resuming normal programming: Relationship questions and answers. :)

[Maxtr0sity]

*Back on topic*

I think I specifically said that "Do you want to go out sometime." Now there, would that sound like a friendly basis?

=)

[Clown Staples]

dont let yourself start doubting things. that makes it harder on yourself. if your going to think something (ie, she likes me) think it confidently until proven otherwise. (keeping in mind that moderate caution with words is always a good thing too)

[DariusMonsef]

Kit: I agree to disagree. He might have asked her out and since they are already firends, she might not know this is a "Date Date."

A girl bringing a friend along is not a great sign. It either says she is uncomfortable being alone with you, or she doesn't want it to be a "date date" or she doesn't know it's a date and is just bringing a friend.

P.S. Futbol is Football is Futbol Americano is Soccer. And 4-2-2 is possible if you get 2 red cards.

[Kitiara]

Good point (the date not the red cards - admitedly you can end up with a 4-2-2, but not start out with it :) ).

How did the friend thing come about? That might help us figure this out. :)

[asphaltcowboy]

Originally posted by Kitiara
Yeah, but you two wouldn't let me buy you drinks, would you? :P oh cmon! it was the first time we met you! I wasnt about to take liberties ;) anyway, I told you I had jsut bought a drink! :)

[DariusMonsef]

I'd hate to english this thread any further, but depending on your roster and taking into account injuries and 1 game suspensions from previous game red cards, it is possible to start with a 9 player lineup.

[Maxtr0sity]

I hope she's comfortable with me, she acted like that when school was still in session. But again, the whole doubting thing is bringing me down a lot. :blush:

Kit: Any other female tips?

=)

[reverendflash]

confidence is extremely attractive.

just don't get '****y' ... I know it's a fine line, but be sure of yourself, don't waffle, and take thought of her needs first (and how your actions will affect her) ...

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[Kitiara]

What he said. :)

Just be natural and yourself. Cheesy but true. :)

[Maxtr0sity]

Taking thoughts of her needs first, isn't that what I'm suppose to do?

=)

[Kitiara]

It's the little things that she'll notice too. I know there's the whole "women prefer bastards" line, but what most of us want is a guy who makes us laugh and feel good about ourselves. :)

Maybe that's where I've been going wrong - picking the bastards. :sure:

[asphaltcowboy]

m8. stop stressing. really... asking and taking other people's advice is pointless.. just be natural man. she'll appreciate it :)

^^ yes, I know that was advice.. but it was kinda.. anti-advice advice :beam:

[Maxtr0sity]

Making her laugh is no problem usually...online that is. But it seems like all my laughing material is gone, she basically knows me better than I know myself.

=)

[Maxtr0sity]

Asphalt: I'll remember to be myself. I don't know why, with the other 3 girls I've gone out with, I've never had this problem. :blush:

=)

[reverendflash]

Don't be an Alan Alda...

Thinking of her needs is important, but becoming a "sensible, thinking man" can get you permanently into the "friend zone."

Confidence in who you are, and what you stand for is very attractive. Thinking you know everything about everything is not.

If you eat dinner, offer her the salt first... open her doors for her, if she is cold, offer her your coat.

If she looks offended at this, stop immediately.

Do not try to impress. that is the most common bad move.

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[Maxtr0sity]

Well, if I get into a relationship, shouldn't her needs be even more important? I don't think I want to be in the friend zone though neither.


Do not try to impress. that is the most common bad move.


Very true, well, I hope. Because I don't have much to impress. :blush:

=)

[Kitiara]

Don't start thinking like that. She wouldn't have agreed to Sunday's date if she thought you were a muppet. :)

Us girls are very picky like that. :beam:

[asphaltcowboy]

women are such fickle .. fellows... :-\

I'm sure Shakespeare said that... didnt he? :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Well Kit, I'm not sure if she even thinks it's a date or just a "friendly gathering" I guess. :blush:

Normal girls would NEVER expect a guy to be this thoughtful as me.

=)

[Kitiara]

Play it by ear I guess. See how she acts and take your cue from her. :)

And yeah, we are fickle creatures. :)

[Maxtr0sity]

Alrit, I'll take your word Kit. Generally, does girls think about it this much? Am I just a weirdo.

=)

[asphaltcowboy]

you're just nervous m8. just stop worrying about it and see how it goes

[Kitiara]

We worry an awful lot more, trust me. :)

We spend a good few hours working out what we're going to wear, how we're going to do our hair, make-up... What we're going to say, what <i>he's</i> going to say, will he like us, will he think we're funny, clever...

I get really nervous. :)

[Maxtr0sity]

O great, thats like, 3 days to worrying left for me. I need to keep this off my mind.

*Opens Flash MX*

=)

[Maxtr0sity]

Thats great news Kit. Fortunally, I don't spend hours pondering on what I'm going to wear and makeup and such.

=)

[Kitiara]

You wouldn't believe the agony women go through about this. :) I know, because I do it. :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, just another reason to thank god for my manness. :thumb:

=)

[asphaltcowboy]

god! women are so shallow ;)

[Kitiara]

That's because men always take note of how you look first! :) It's all very well having a great personality, but if you look like something the cat dragged in they won't talk to you for long enough to find out. :)

You know how long it took me to decide on my outfit the other Friday? :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Suprisingly, I have to admit Alisha would rate a 6.74 on a scale from 1-10 and 10 as the highest. But she has a great personality though.

You mean the short blue skirt? :P

=)

[asphaltcowboy]

omg.. no way...? actually. to tell the truth.. I did consider it... or at least.. I considered considering what I was going to wear.. :) lord knows - I was too worried about what you guys were going to be like! :)

[Kitiara]

Yeah, the skirt. :P Time spent working out outfit = the whole week beforehand. Honestly. :blush:

So you can imagine how we get when it's a date. :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, guys throw on what ever doesn't have a stain or smell 20 seconds before leaving.

=)

[reverendflash]

hence the CFM's ?

j/k Kit... I always like women in short skirts and stilletos...

:beam:

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[Maxtr0sity]

Who doesn't? ;)

=)

[Kitiara]

Originally posted by reverendflash
hence the CFM's ?

j/k Kit... I always like women in short skirts and stilletos...

:beam:

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif Got it in one. :)

I don't know why women worry about this kind of thing so much, but we do. If anything Max, she's probably more nervous than you. :)

[DariusMonsef]

ok, not all guys just throw on what ever doesn't have a stain.. I can be a big girls blouse sometimes on how I dress and my hair.

I'm glad I took off my pink footer before I said that.

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, I hope so. That'd kind of blance out the freaking out in both of us. Either that, or she completely forgot about it.

=)

[reverendflash]

This is true...

don't get wound up... that could spell disaster...

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[asphaltcowboy]

Originally posted by EthanM
I'm glad I took off my pink footer before I said that. I was going to ask you about that...! where the hell has it gone? is this another case of 'love me and leave me'? :*(

*heartbroken*

[Maxtr0sity]

Hair is always important though, always keep them good and clean. Plus, wear clone to hide the smell of manness.

=)

[asphaltcowboy]

"the smell of manness" - lol.. sounds like an evil potion from an RPG ;) Special Features: 'When applying this potion, you will be able to kill all level 98 enemies from 30 units away" :thumb:

hair... yes... I try and do something with my hair before I go out.. I can spend an absolute age trying to get to look right.. but it never does really... in fact... it's different everytime I step out of the house! :)

[DariusMonsef]

asphalt,

I'm taking advice fromt he thread and trying to pull away, you know to make you want the footer there more. I don't want to look desperate with my footer. Thanks again kit!

[Maxtr0sity]

I never do my hair unless I'm going out somewhere. I leave it how ever screwed up it is when I wake up if I'm not going out that day.

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[Maxtr0sity]

hair... yes... I try and do something with my hair before I go out.. I can spend an absolute age trying to get to look right.. but it never does really... in fact... it's different everytime I step out of the house!

*Finds Meeting of Kit+Soul thread*
*Looks at asphalt's hair*

Did you do your hair that day?

[asphaltcowboy]

I tried.. why.. is it good or bad? :bad:
(my answer will change according to your answer ;))

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, seems fine actually, thats kind of how my hair naturally grows. When I wake up (such as now), I have chunks of hair standing up. But if I comb it down, gel isn't required most of the time, my hair would look almost like yours. Same color too.

=)

[asphaltcowboy]

hehe.. ok good.. no, my hair naturally just stays down.. flat... deader than... a dead thing.. decided I'd start gel-ing it a while back.. everytime with mixed results ;)

[Maxtr0sity]

I have asian hair, it like, stands at a 40 degree at all times. I have to comb it down, but it stands right back up after it dries. Not much gel for me neither.

=)

[Maxtr0sity]

Anyone know how long T3 is?

[asphaltcowboy]

ask edwin: http://www.kirupaforum.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=27530 :thumb:

[Maxtr0sity]

Thanks, asphalt, it's 1 hour 39 minutes.

Great, thats going to be a long time.

=)

[Maxtr0sity]

Alrit, I just called her less than 5 minutes ago. Turns out, her friend can't come! YES! That saves me $20.00 right there. But then, we forgot that T3 was a rated R movie so we can't get in since I'm still 16. We've decided to just meet up at the mall sometime on Sunday and which ever movie we feel like watching, we'll go see then.

She seemed fine on the phone and I think I heard a little bit of "he finally called" voice in her when she picked up. :P

=)

[Kitiara]

Good for you Max. :) Plus bonus if the friend can't come. ;) We'll all keep our fingers crossed for you on Sunday, I'm sure.

Maybe I should start up my own advice forum? :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, Thanks for all the women advice so far Kit, couldn've done it without you. :thumb:

Men need like, a women forum, where men ask women about this kind of stuff, and vis versa also.

My 4th of July just gets better and better.

=)

[grimdeath]

man your worrying to much just be yourself, theres no better way to know if a person will like you if your just being yourself. As for questions, try asking her what are her goals and dreams, where does she see herself 5 years from now, if she answers pregnant and no hint as to work or colege get up and start running as fast as you can and erase her from your im app ;)

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, grimdeath, your talking too old here buddy. I don't think anyone would reply "pregnant" and yet intrested to me. I'm only 16. :thumb:

=)

[grimdeath]

just making sure you know what to do if that happens ;)

[Maxtr0sity]

O definitely. But I don't think I'd be running though.

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[grimdeath]

then you need some serious help man, cripes im just trying to help you avoid what happend to me, the only diffrence is i never asked those questions i told you to ask, now i got 2 wonderfull kids which i will never regret having but i do regret who i had them with :-\ just giving you some friendly advice ;)

[Maxtr0sity]

It's all good after a family, it's more stable than just going out. It's going to be a while before that happens to me though.

=)

[Maxtr0sity]

Everything is off. Last night, I saw in her profile "Denny, [<-Her old bf] we're back and strong again." And I was a like, wt*? She was away, so I got on this morning, and she told me that she and her bf are back together.

Going to cry in the corner now.

=(

[grimdeath]

cry??? wtf man go to the movies by yourself and look for another date its that simple, anyways its her loss, just make sure when she breaks up again with her bf and asks you out, you better tell her no thanks or i will personally kill you.

Life goes on, move along with it and be happy your single man theres many more women whre that one came from, hell theres about 4 women for every guuy worldwide women are the majority in everything these days so get to work ;)

[asphaltcowboy]

thats pretty sh*tty man.. sorry to hear that :(

[reverendflash]

just a speed bump in the road of life...

take it as a blessing that she didn't go out with you first, then get back together with her b/f...

Then your heart would be open to lots of abuse...

positive thoughts = more opportunities w/the ladies...

;)

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[Voetsjoeba]

Originally posted by asphaltcowboy
thats pretty sh*tty man.. sorry to hear that :(

[Maxtr0sity]

Thanks you guys. Turns out, I'm stilling going with the guys on Sunday. She was trying to explain things to me and I made up all this stuff to her and made her feel reallly guilty. So, that definitely made me feel a lot heck better.

Grimdeath, if she happens to ask me out again, I'll definitely deny, she's emotionaly unstable.

Asphalt, thanks for caring, and same goes to everyone else. :(

Rev, I'm sort of thankful that I didn't go out yet, if we did, then they got back, I would've been really pissed. But I guess I'm over it now.

=)

[fluid_0ne]

uncle Good Advice says:

"it's always one experience more"

dunno what that means tho ;)

[grimdeath]

ya it means never worry to much over things you do not have, this is basically what causese people problems they want something so bad that when they dont get it, or if something doesnt come out as planned they get real p!ssed off and blame themselves.

Just be happy your single now you can seek out more women :beam: good luck buddy and its always an experience with women you always learn something new with em

Women= crazy people that are not capable of being understood no matter how much you try to please them and can drive a man insane in a jiffy, but we cant live without em so its a love hate kinda thing.

We're very f@cked

P.S. Kit your not in this category your somethng else i wish id met a girl like you lol. ;)

[Maxtr0sity]

Suprisingly, I had a real long talk with ahmed last night, turns out, I think I can do better without a woman in my life right now. Without her, I've made some pretty cool stuff in Cinema 4D now, but then, does that mean we're somewhat g@y? Scary thought though.

I can't understand women, at all. I hardly understand my mom, and I've known her for 16 years! I give up.

=)
PS. *Grimdeath's PS* ;)

[TheOrangeOne]

All women are Evil
All Men are Morons

I rest my case.......

[grimdeath]

Originally posted by TheOrangeOne
All women are Evil
All Men are Morons

I rest my case.......

ya were morons because we believe evil women :-\ man how much trouble can a rib make???

Trouble is not even scratching the surface rotflmao, the real smart men are gay, d@mn im msut be real dumb then :P

[Kitiara]

Sorry to hear it didn't work out Max. :sure:

I'd like to state for the record that not all women are evil. I think I'm much closer to being a moron. :P

[asphaltcowboy]

awww dont put yourself down kit! ;)

evil! eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeevil! :bad:

[Kitiara]

I am not evil! :)

:evil:

^ Ignore that. It wasn't me! :beam:

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, women aren't evil, they're just the complete opposite of men. Men thinks women are evil, women most likely think men are evil. But then, I think I'm evil myself, does that make me a woman?

=)

[ahmed]

Originally posted by Maxtr0sity
I think I can do better without a woman in my life right now. Without her, I've made some pretty cool stuff in Cinema 4D now, but then, does that mean we're somewhat g@y? lol gay? I don't quite think so.. I never wanted to have a girlfriend or go on a date, and I'm perfectly straight =).. just a matter of preference =)

[kirupa]

Originally posted by ahmed
lol gay? I don't quite think so.. I never wanted to have a girlfriend or go on a date, and I'm perfectly straight =).. just a matter of preference =)
Rock on ahmed! I'd rather date intelligent women after college rather than waste my time with petty girls in school. I find spending my free time playing WarCraft III...I mean working in Flash rather better spent than worrying about girls :)

Cheers!
Kirupa :ub:

[asphaltcowboy]

ok... not all girls in school are petty... (unless you meant pretty :))

and sure.. worrying about girls is pretty annoying.. but being with girls is a whole different story (I decided at the last minute not to use the phrase 'a whole different ball game')

;)

[Kitiara]

Wise move. ;)

[Maxtr0sity]

Lol, I think high school or college without a girlfriend at all is kind of sad though. Experience is needed for future relationships too.

=)
PS. Ahmed, I'm not implying that I'm gay or anything. :trout:

[ahmed]

Originally posted by kirupa
Rock on ahmed! I'd rather date intelligent women after college rather than waste my time with petty girls in school. I find spending my free time playing WarCraft III...I mean working in Flash rather better spent than worrying about girls :)

exactly my point =)


Originally posted by Maxtr0sity
PS. Ahmed, I'm not implying that I'm gay or anything. :trout:

No, I think you are :P :trout:

[Maxtr0sity]

Watch it, I'm getting my permit this weekend. That makes me a bit sooner of going up to Canada plowing Raed down and maybe clip you on the side. :trout:

=)

[ahmed]

lol :beam:

too bad, raed's now back home, in United Something of Something :P

[Maxtr0sity]

What? Raed went back to UAE?

=)

[ahmed]

yeah.. for the summer holidays only though :).. basil is away too, having in Florida :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Basil = ODF correct?

ODF is cool, I need to hunt down Raed.

=)

[ahmed]

haha.. i agree, ODF's cool :P..

p.s Basil = ODF = B-Dawg (on kirupaforum.com).. search for his old posts.. :P

[Maxtr0sity]

Didn't know he kirupa. Is he still active.

=)

[ahmed]

lol not anymore.. when he's back here, i'll get him to kirupa more often :)

[Maxtr0sity]

Does he know flash or skilled in anything? Same with Raed, does he know anything?

=)

[ahmed]

nah, they're both idiots =)

[TheOrangeOne]

Originally posted by kirupa
Rock on ahmed! I'd rather date intelligent women after college rather than waste my time with petty girls in school. I find spending my free time playing WarCraft III...I mean working in Flash rather better spent than worrying about girls :)

I see your point, there are plenty of intelligent and fun women out there, it just takes a LOT of effort to find them. Took me about 7 months and a load of disapointments to find Lindsey (my g/f). It was worth it, but i guess i was lucky as well!

*edit* Besides, Flash doesn't argue with you, never complains about how it looks and doesn't mind if you choose to ignore it when it annoys you!

[Maxtr0sity]

Besides, Flash doesn't argue with you, never complains about how it looks and doesn't mind if you choose to ignore it when it annoys you!
My flash argues with me. :trout:


retarded.Human = "Max"


=)

[TheOrangeOne]

heh heh. My flash never argues with me, i think it just sits there and laughs at my stupidity instead :p

[Maxtr0sity]

My flash randomly deletes files everytime I write something retarded in AS. ;(

=)