life suxx

[fluid_0ne]

have you ever had a feeling like somebody has pinned a needle straight in your heart?

god, life suxx:*( :*( :*( :*( :*(

[kirupa]

Sorry to hear that. I find that running a few miles often helps take your mind of your worries. You can talk to friends, etc. There are several threads on a related topic that you can search for.

Cheers!
Kirupa :blush:

[Voetsjoeba]

Yeah ... had that one ... life sucks at those moments. But if it's sunday morning and you're having dinner outside and it's a good temperature and some birds are singing, life is great again =) Try it, it's really great !

[fluid_0ne]

but life without her suxx... :*(

[Mik3]

just remember that it'll all be over and your life will get back on track and you will be feeling better than ever.

[fluid_0ne]

n0pe...

[Jasninder]

Hey :(
wots wrong m8?
Open up, may b we can help u out.

[asphaltcowboy]

Originally posted by fluid_0ne
but life without her suxx... :*( sounds pretty obvious to me flasherjaz.

[Jubba]

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[fluid_0ne]

it's not that easy...
we had some "nice time" (no! not sex!) together last saturday (friends' party)
and i spoke with her...
but's she's so busy (we've seen twice this week) and tomorrow shes' leaving for 1 month...
i dunno what to do...

[upuaut]

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder." That's not just a silly little phrase. :) Do you think she will forget you in a month? Make sure to see her off. Bring a single flower (if you're so inclined). She will remember you.

[Jubba]

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[cool blue]

yaa!!
jUbba is right,
U just have to give sometime, and also month is noth to much.
If u had good times with her then y on the earth will she forget u?

dont worry she will remember u .
If not then we r there we will make her rememebre u ??? :)
;)

[Jasninder]

Nice one blue=)

Hey who knos she mite come back, always happen my frnd.
And dont worry about any distance or time, if she's ur destiny, she ll have to come back.I ws gona tel my story,but i guess half of u will call me crazy:P but seriously all i have gathered from 9 years of our relation is that if u lose hope, faith, believe in urself and her love for u, u lose trust,U lose it all.I believe in miracles, i believe if u have set her free or she has gone away, if shes urs, she will b back and i hope n pray she is...Coz i really know how it feels :(

Jubba is right about it and so is cool blue, hey upuaut , how about flowers and something wich can remind her of our frnd?
I d say something small and cute, i gave my gf bracelet and said something cute, somethin like this will hold us togather, hand in hand(cant recall, sorry)but it was cute, even surprized me, so i d say get a gift wich can b wid her all the time, she ll never forget u and yes when u get tht gift, plz tell us wat that is and we can think of some words to b stuck in her head forever :love:

What do u guys think?Lets b a lil practicle about it now and do something smart=) remember GOD help only those who help themselves.

[asphaltcowboy]

hang on. have you broken up with this girl? or she's just going away for a month?

[cool blue]

Words
Words is all that u have to take her heart away

[Jasninder]

I was gona ask the same,but my guess is she's going off for a month wich is automatic breaking up for some :-s, am i right or wrong?

[eilsoe]

I had a korean gf once, I loved her to death :) Until finally one day she told me she'd been unfaithful with 2 other persons. now THAT broke my heart.

I can say that I felt like a splattered turd for months. But now I have a fiancé which is far more worth than that b*itch I was with before :)

don't feel too sad, someone better will come along :) someone always does :)


;)

[rere420]

Buddy,

All I can tell you is to honestly believe that what is to be will be....I tell myslef that everyday.

I know it is a chessy cliche and all but if was meant to be, it will be...It may not be right now (and that sucks) but if you are suppossed to be with that person, it will work out somehow. The only thing you can want for someone you love that much and for yourself is to be happy. If that is you guys together then you will figure it out and be happy, if it isnt, you don't see it know but you will be happy with whomever it is and it is because it is what should be...

Hang in there buddy...Life has a funny way of working itself out

[asphaltcowboy]

do any of us actually know what we're talking about yet?

[Surface]

"time has the ability to heal all wounds"

its goia suck, im not goina lie, and say its goina be ok, you will prob hurt for a while, but it will get less and less with time, not that you have gotten over her, but that you have moved on, thats what humans do, we adapt, thats why we are the #1 species(well tied for first with dogs, cuz dogs are awesome).

I once had this bad experance.... really bad.

I had been dating this girl for a few months, I was really into her, but then she was going to france, to spend the first two months of school in france. That was fine with me, I was goina miss her though. Well on the first day of school(my birthday), her friend came up to me, when I was surrounded by everyone in the school. And very loudly told me that my girl friend was breaking up with me, and had cheated on me twice.

Ouch...

But this was a while ago, and thats why I am able to to talk about it freely, proof that "Time has the ability to heal all wounds"

[Lynx]

hahaha why are you said? she will be back in a month, right?

imagine, that this is a test for your heart:
do you really care about her, is it a real love or just short lived passion...
if you still love her after a month, your love will be only stronger...

good luck with your girl! :)

[rere420]

what do you mean asphalt? Are you talking about specific to his story or life experiance???

Unfortunately, I got the experiance. Three months ago, my 3.5 year relationship ended. We lived together for 2.5 years and everything. Moving out was the hardest thing I have honestly ever done in my life. It still sucks but hey, like I said If you really and truely love someone, then you only want them to be happy....and if is is going to work it will and if it is not going to work then it wasnt suppossed to work.... JMO

[asphaltcowboy]

I'm talking about: has she broken up with him, or is she just going away for a month? you may notice that he didn't actually say... everyone is just assuming.

[rere420]

hmm...good question...People go away all the time, doesnt mean that they break up...

[asphaltcowboy]

yeah, but no one actually knows! :)

[Lynx]

Originally posted by fluid_0ne
tomorrow shes' leaving for 1 month ...

[asphaltcowboy]

yes.. but there was also a suggestion that they might have actually broken up. of course.. if it is just that she's going away for a month, but they haven't broken up, I have but one thing to say:

get over it. it's only a month ffs :P

if they're breaking up, well... then, fair enough, it's never easy :)

[Jasninder]

eilsoe, same thing happened wid me ones, she was american, only difference is that ur girl(at that time ofcourse) had guts to tell u the truth in my case i had my 6th sense to rely on and i found it myself, it's shattering and just like u now i have someone hu is sply made for me :love:

I had a hard time trusting anyone, to be very frank i have put my gf thru somuch coz of wat tht B*TCH* did to me, i cud't trust anyone anymore, it was just her patiance and love that i m finally over this.She is just amazing person, can tell wats bothering u, wats the cure and i never realized it, she was wid me all my life, same school, class, even the same bench, best friends all our life... long story, but cute =) rite now she's in uk and i m in delhi, we stay in touch thru sms, fone, yahoo, msn and webcam ofcourse. Trust was a big issue for me after going thru my other relationship, it was like a disease...VEry Ugly Times..We are togather just because of her.......Gosh i can speak all day long...... sorry guys :blush:

Ya asphalt i still dont know if she's gone temporary or forever,altho he said month :-s

Hey fluid, come on m8
clear the scene for us so we can talk about it, ofcourse if it's ok wid u...

[fluid_0ne]

we don't break up, cuz' we've never been a couple! it's just i can't spend any time with her, she's busy with this fkn' vacation...

i miss her a lot...

[rere420]

then dude, no offense but get over it.....You'll live, I swear...

[reverendflash]

Originally posted by rere420
then dude, no offense but get over it.....You'll live, I swear...

LOL!

seriously...

save this for when you permanently lose someone...

it will make this look like a mosquito bite.

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

[fluid_0ne]

...

[nheet]

I watch movies when i get mad.

[fluid_0ne]

and i listen to music, but this time this doesn't help...
i see her everywhere i turn my eyes...

[nheet]

maybe you should try to get her back

[fluid_0ne]

read all the thread... she's leaving for 1 month...

[Niann]

Make yourself busy with other things. Back in the day before I had a real job, and was still in school, I used to work at a summer camp. (It was great job, outside all day, free room and board, sailing on the weekends when there were no kids around...) In any case it meant being away from home and all my friends for three months. I left people I cared a great deal for. But by the second or third day I was so busy with other things I hardly had time to be upset. Time will go much faster if you do other things than mope around. Try it, you may even have fun. :thumb:

Cheers!
-Niann

[fluid_0ne]

but there's nothing for me to do...
i think about her all day long...

[reverendflash]

read a book.

do a tutorial.

learn a new language.

paint a picture.

go outside!

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

[Alex]

just think of it this way, there are plently of more fish in the sea...


:P

[fluid_0ne]

rev :
- hate to read // lol
- don't know anything special to share with...
- :sure:
- can't take my mind off her...
- i'm riding a bike ~6 hours a day with my homies // doesn't work

alex:
but this fish is golden :blush:

[reverendflash]

so do something to occupy your mind.

All you are doing is whining about how much it hurts, and then shoot down everything anyone gives as advice.

IMO

suck it up, get over it, or stop whining about it. It isn't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I am glad that this seems like a big deal to you, that means your life has been pretty good so far.

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

[Niann]

It sounds to me like you almost don't want to do anything other than sit around filled with self pity. In that case I am not sure anyone can say anything to make you feel better.

Cheers!
-Niann

[asphaltcowboy]

ok, having jsut read that, I go back to my original point:

get over it.

sorry but... that's it tbh. you're not even a couple!??! :-\

[lostinbeta]

I have to agree with these past few posts. A girl who is just your friend leaves for a month on vacation and you think life sucks and your you were stabbed in the heart?

Try losing your girlfriend of over 2 years :sigh:

[RussianBeer]

Yeah man,

No offence, but stop complaining, if she was dying of terminal cancer, I would understand, other than that its just whining.

If you keep whining, I'm gona start thinking your from Linkin Park! :smirk:

[asphaltcowboy]

admittedly, i'd be heartbroken if lostinbeta stopped finding me supah-sexeh :love:

;)

[Surface]

egh... dude, i didnt read whole form, so i dont know if you admited this, but you love her, i can tell

so do this:

USE YOUR TIME TO FIND A WAY TO GET HER TO FALL FOR YOU

when she gets back, sweep her off her feet, then you will have her more, than when she left,

:bandit:

[nobody]

surface i gotta disagree with that one.. he's infatuated with her

[cool blue]

HAHAHAH!!!
There goes the story.
Fluid my pal its just Infatuation.....
and ur to much Possessive about her, thats wat make u feel so low .
Chil ..i know its hard. but if u keep on thinking about her u will be more upset and frustrated.
Now just think how will u go through with her After a month.
and then u will boom all with colours back again.
the best part is i think u r starting to love her....so dont scrumble ur love thoughs with this .... just think positive.

CHIL man..

[RussianBeer]

If I hear one more complain about your girl being on "vacation" for a month.. I will have to catapult you in to the sun... lol
Jk! Your a charmer..

But honestly... lets cut the Linkin Park BS, lets stop whining and move on...!?

[Daveman]

but what if she meets someone on vacation? maybe thats what bothers him so much.. Ask if you can go with her..

[cool blue]

or may be she will never come back.....
may be she will fall in love someone else like daveman said...
or may .....

Come on....get a life...nothings gona happen..
she will come back...and fluid and she will have a gr8 time...

[fluid_0ne]

no - we won't
i spoke to her today (about 2.30 am)...

now i'm really sad :*(

[cool blue]

WAT !! Wat did u speak to her!!!

WAT di she say that made u SAd!!!

[vts31]

suck it up. accept whats happened. break off ALL contact for a while untill you heal. ****.

[fluid_0ne]

i can't...

[cool blue]

r u playing games with us , just to make this thread moving....
Cos i hate this kind of ****....

[vts31]

ive been through worse. i gurantee this. your sad now then youll be angry then u'll be depresed then you'll accept it. if she dumped you u need to say good bye to her for a while. otherwise you're gonna be depressed as hell for a while. having your heart shattered is usually a good thing, builds character. Plus being so attached at a young age is generaly not a good idea.


wait a sec...your posting about this chick going on vacation? i thought she dumped you!!! not to offend you but you're a freaking leightweight. I cant fathom what you;re gonna be like when the relationship ends. good luck man!

[fluid_0ne]

cool blue - then why do you reply???

vts - i have all-in-one feelings...

[cool blue]

hahaa YE!!!! Vts31 is right!!!

What will happen if she really leave u???
OOOHHH god i cant imagine......

good luck man! once again( i think u need IT(

[DariusMonsef]

Fluid,

So what is your relationship with her?

Have you ever dated?

Does she know you feel this way about her?

Does she know you?

Not too be too much of a dik but this sounds like the type of thing where a person ends up in pieces in a box in someones closet.

[Jasninder]

I agree wid some recent posts, does she even know about how u feel for her? hey if u r not brave enough to say, give her this posts's add and let her see for herself and if she dumps u after that too, then i guess she's not lookin for u and u shud also take it as it is... u kno, u can't force her...I thot u were on last stage of love, wat i feel now is that u have not even started, does she even kno? wat are u exactly expecting, miracles dont happen by themselves, God only helps those who help themselves... So getover it if u dont think u can b clear about ur feelings wid her..

lol@ethan footer:P:P:P hehehe

[asphaltcowboy]

god... this is pathetic :-\

[Kitiara]

Agreed. Can we tone down the angst just a little please?

Asphalt - Afternoon mate. :) Seen you've been immortalised in a footer? :) <b>*Points*</b>

[asphaltcowboy]

ye I have.! 'Everyone just wants to love me baaaaaaaaaabehehh' :thumb:

[cool blue]

YES!!! i am with asphalt this is WAY beyond pathetic....
atleast fluid should give us the truth.
we r just imaging think..

no offence....;)
:)
CHIL man

[Kitiara]

Oooookay then. :)

Just noticed your footer actually. I remember Monkey. :) I have a DVD of it in fact. :P

[asphaltcowboy]

Monkey is one of the greatest TV series of all time.. gonna get the DVDs....
when I can afford it :)

[cool blue]

a new love is blooming

[fluid_0ne]

ethan:
So what is your relationship with her?
dunno really...

Have you ever dated?
yep

Does she know you feel this way about her?
sure she does

Does she know you?
no comment...

[reverendflash]

Fluid:

This is not healthy. Stop this now.

You will survive. as a matter of fact, if you look at this in a month when she gets back, you will feel like a total cheeseball.

Everyone here has been giving you the same advice, with you ignoring it, so I am going to lock this thread.

Revhttp://www.aulman.com/rev.gif

[vts31]

Originally posted by fluid_0ne
ethan:
So what is your relationship with her?
dunno really...

Have you ever dated?
yep

Does she know you feel this way about her?
sure she does

Does she know you?
no comment...

"YOU"RE A LOSER! WHATS WRONG WITH YOU!?"-this is what she would say if she knew about your posts on this thread. This is why BLOGS were invented.:angry: